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Tailgate Organization Tips: How to Stay Stress-Free on Game Day

Football season in the South isn’t just about the game—it’s about the tailgate tradition. From family recipes to team spirit, SEC tailgating is one of our favorite ways to connect with friends and celebrate. But here’s the truth: if your tailgate setup isn’t organized, the fun can quickly turn into chaos.

As a professional organizer and lover of cheering on my LSU Tigers, I believe that with a little preparation, you can spend less time stressing and more time cheering. Here are my best tailgate organization tips to keep your game day smooth, simple, and stress-free.

1. The Tailgate Tubs: Your Game Day Secret Weapon

Create clear storage bins filled with the essentials you’ll need every time:

  • Plates, napkins, plastic tablecloths and cutlery

  • Wet wipes, paper towels

  • Trash bags, aluminum containers,  zip-top bags for leftovers

  • Decorations(Because nobody wants a boring tailgate!)

Keep a list of what needs to be in each bin.(Laminate and tape to the bin) Restock it after every game so it’s always ready to grab and go. This single step eliminates that last-minute scramble through your kitchen.

2. Make a Game Day Checklist

Tailgates have a lot of moving parts, and it’s easy to forget something important. A checklist ensures you never leave home without:

  • Chairs

  • Tent or canopy

  • Tables

  • Ice Chests

  • Team gear

  • Clear Purse

  • Jackets

Pro tip: save Your list in your phone notes app. Check items off as you load your car.

3. Organize Your Ice Chests Like a Pro

Ice Chests are the heart of every tailgate, but without a system, they can become a free-for-all.

  • Ice Chest #1: Drinks only.(We separate water and soft drinks from alcohol)

  • Ice Chest #2: Raw or cooked food.

  • Ice Chest #3 (optional): Desserts or snacks.

Use painter’s tape to label each ice chest so guests can find what they need without digging through everything.

4. Keep Serving Stations Simple

  • Use caddies or baskets for condiments and utensils.

  • Group similar foods together on tables

  • Label dish covers so everyone knows what’s inside.

When your stations are clear and organized, guests can serve themselves without asking you a million questions.

5. Plan for Easy Cleanup

Cleanup doesn’t have to be stressful if you set it up ahead of time.

  • Bring bins for clean up:  dirty serving items will go in these.

  • Assign a “cleanup buddy” so you’re not stuck doing it all or hire a crew to do it for you.

  • Assign a person to wrap up the trash and take it to designated trash spot or put it in the vehicle to bring home.

A little planning makes pack-up faster and ensures you leave the space better than you found it.

The Game Day Mindset

Remember, tailgate organization isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being prepared. When your gear, food, and flow are in order, you create space for what matters most: cheering for your team and making memories.

Playful mantra to remember: “Clear bins, big wins!”


Ready to Tackle Your Own Chaos?

If your home, garage, or event setup feels more like a fumble than a touchdown, it may be time for professional help. At Chaos Organizing, we help busy families create order so you can enjoy life without the stress of clutter.

👉 Call us today at 225-205-6400 or visit ChaosOrganizing.com to schedule your consultation.

Because whether it’s tailgates or Tuesdays, life is better when it’s organized.


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Stand in Your Back Door and Really Look: Is This the Life You Want?

Have you ever stood in your back doorway, coffee in hand, and just looked at your house?

Not just a passing glance—but really looked?

The dishes from yesterday. The piles on the counter. The cluttered corners you’ve stopped noticing. The closet you keep meaning to tackle. The laundry that seems to multiply like it has a life of its own.

Now ask yourself…

Have you ever stood in your back doorway, coffee in hand, and just looked at your house?

Not just a passing glance—but really looked?

The dishes from yesterday. The piles on the counter. The cluttered corners you’ve stopped noticing. The closet you keep meaning to tackle. The laundry that seems to multiply like it has a life of its own.

Now ask yourself:

Is this the life you want to live in?

The Quiet Toll of Chaos

Disorganization doesn’t always look like an episode of a reality show. It’s quieter than that.

It’s the mental weight you carry every time you walk past a mess you can’t face.
It’s the argument sparked by a missing shoe or forgotten appointment.
It’s the dinner you don’t cook because you can’t find the cutting board.
It’s the guilt, the stress, the overwhelm—that slow, simmering tension that never quite goes away.

And over time?

That chaos chips away at your peace, your time, your energy, and your joy.

But Here’s the Truth: It Doesn’t Have to Stay This Way

Imagine walking into your home and feeling calm instead of anxious.
Imagine knowing where everything is—and where everything goes.
Imagine a home that works for you, not against you.

You don’t need a bigger house.
You don’t need fancy bins or color-coded systems (unless you want them).
You just need a reset—a reclaiming.

Because your home should feel like a soft place to land.
Not a battleground of stuff.

Let’s Get Real About Your Space

If your home could talk, what would it say to you?
Would it beg for breathing room? Would it whisper, “Help”?

Stand in your back door again.
This time, take a deep breath.
Look through eyes that see potential, not just problems.

You are allowed to want more peace.
You are allowed to want a space that supports you.
You are allowed to say, “This isn’t working for me anymore.”

Your Home is a Reflection—Not a Judgment

This isn’t about shame. It’s about clarity.

Every item that clutters your space is a decision waiting to be made.
And when those decisions pile up, they paralyze us.
But you don’t have to make them alone.

At Chaos Organizing, we step into that overwhelm with kindness and strategy. We guide you, not judge you. We help you make the hard calls, create systems that fit your life, and breathe new energy into every room.

Start With a Doorway and a Decision

Sometimes the first step toward peace is standing still long enough to see what’s not working—and having the courage to do something about it.

So go to your back door.
Stand there.
Look inside.
And if you feel something stir in your chest—a longing, a restlessness, a “this just isn’t it”… then know that change is possible.

Your home doesn’t have to be perfect.
But it can be peaceful.
It can be yours again.

Ready to reclaim your space?

Let’s do it together.

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The CHAOS Method Goes Abroad: How I Packed for 15 Days in Scotland & Ireland with Just a Carry-On and Backpack

When you’re a professional organizer, packing for a two-week trip is more than just logistics—it’s a challenge you secretly enjoy. For my 15-day adventure through Scotland and Ireland, I used only a carry-on suitcase and a backpack, proving that you can travel light without sacrificing comfort or style.

When you’re a professional organizer, packing for a two-week trip is more than just logistics—it’s a challenge you secretly enjoy. For my 15-day adventure through Scotland and Ireland, I used only a carry-on suitcase and a backpack, proving that you can travel light without sacrificing comfort or style.

I relied on my tried-and-true CHAOS Method to guide every step of my packing—and let me tell you, it worked beautifully (well… except for that one jacket I shouldn’t have brought 😉).

C – Categorizing

Before packing, I divided everything into five core categories:

  • Clothing

  • Shoes

  • Toiletries

  • Tech

  • Travel Essentials

This helped me focus on what I truly needed—not what “might be nice.”

Here’s what I packed for clothes:

(All black except one pop of green!)

Shoes:

  • 1 pair of Hoka waterproof tennis shoes (gray)

  • 1 pair of Veronica Beard slip-on tennis shoes

H – Helpful or Hurtful?

Every item had to earn its spot. I asked: Will this help me enjoy my trip—or hurt by taking up space?

Helpful: My Hoka waterproof tennis shoes—comfortable, weather-ready, and walked hundreds of steps a day.
Helpful: My White + Warren cashmere wrap—used on flights, trains, and in chilly B&Bs.
Hurtful: My white fleece jacket. Cute, yes—but it never got worn and took up precious space. I regretted bringing it.

Lesson? When in doubt—leave it out.

A – Action: Keep, Toss, Leave Behind

I made intentional decisions with everything. No “just in case” extras.

Keep:

  • Classic layers and moisture-wicking items

  • My two favorite pairs of shoes for walking

  • Stylish, functional pieces that could dress up or down

Leave behind:

  • Anything bulky, impractical, or not versatile (looking at you, fleece jacket)

O – Organize (with Packing Cubes & Pouches)

Packing cubes made this trip a dream. I used:

  • 1 cube for tops

  • 1 cube for bottoms

  • 1 small cube for undergarments & sleepwear

  • Zipper pouches for toiletries, cords, and meds

Every item had a home, which meant I wasn’t rummaging through my suitcase every time we changed hotels.

What Was in My Backpack

While my suitcase held my wardrobe, my backpack was my mobile command center. Here’s what I kept close:

  • Travel-sized toiletries and makeup

  • A change of clothes (in case luggage got lost—later moved to suitcase while city-hopping)

  • Chargers, cords, and international adapter

  • Passport and ID

  • Laptop (so I could check in with work!)

  • Snacks and a reusable water bottle

  • My wrap—easy to pull out on chilly flights, walks, or train rides

✈️ Martha-Carol’s Backpack Must-Haves:

  • Travel-size deodorant & facial mist

  • Lipstick & hand cream

  • Power bank

  • Emergency snack (because hangry is real for me)

  • Printed copies of important documents (just in case Wi-Fi fails)

S – Simplify (Label + Let Go)

Everything had a home and a purpose. I even used labeled zip pouches to make TSA checks quick and painless.
I simplified by sticking to a neutral palette—mostly black—with a pop of green. It made mixing, matching, and dressing up or down effortless.

Packing List Additions (Toiletries & Tech)

Toiletries & Haircare:

  • Makeup

  • Deodorant

  • Shampoo

  • Conditioner

  • Hair gel

  • Hairspray

  • Dry shampoo

  • Laundry detergent sheets

  • Dryer sheets

Tech Essentials:

  • Charging cords (phone + computer)

  • AirPods

  • Power bank

  • International adapter

Final Thoughts

My carry-on never felt like a burden, and my outfits made me feel confident, comfortable, and ready for anything—from castle tours to countryside walks.
If I can travel this organized, so can you. 😉

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Kindness always,
Martha-Carol Stewart
Founder of Chaos Organizing | Co-Author of Southern Chaos
ChaosOrganizing.com | @chaosorganizing

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The Hidden Cost of Disorganization

Let’s be honest: We’ve all spent 20 minutes searching for that thing we just saw yesterday. Maybe it was your favorite sweater, your kid’s field trip form, or the charger you swear lives in that drawer.

Disorganization isn’t just a nuisance—it’s quietly draining your time, energy, and yes... your money. Here's how.

Let’s be honest: We’ve all spent 20 minutes searching for that thing we just saw yesterday. Maybe it was your favorite sweater, your kid’s field trip form, or the charger you swear lives in that drawer.

Disorganization isn’t just a nuisance—it’s quietly draining your time, energy, and yes... your money. Here's how.

⏱ 1. Time: The Thief That Wears a Cluttered Cape

Every time you dig through a junk drawer or rifle through a closet like you're on a scavenger hunt, you're losing time. Precious time. The kind you can’t get back.

According to studies, the average American spends 2.5 days per year looking for lost items. That’s a weekend getaway, gone to the land of “Where did I put that?”

And yes, even I’m guilty of this.

There was a time I was rushing to write a newsletter—on deadline, of course—and couldn’t find my reading glasses. After 15 minutes of frantic searching (and fully blaming my sweet husband for moving them), I charged into the barn and demanded their return. He smiled, reached out… and plucked them from the top of my head. 😳

Y’all, I’m married to a saint.

💸 2. Money: The Repeat Buyer’s Club

When you can't find what you need, you buy another one. And then another. That’s why you have four staplers and enough birthday candles to light a stadium.

Worse yet, disorganization leads to:

  • Expired groceries (goodbye, forgotten lettuce)

  • Missed bills and late fees

  • Unused subscriptions or duplicates

It’s like a slow financial leak you don’t notice until you’ve floated into a sea of unnecessary Amazon boxes.

I had a client who owned over 40 flashlights.
Yes—forty. Plus six can openers, nine pairs of scissors, and who knows how many rolls of tape.

Why? Because every time she couldn’t find one, she’d just buy another. Things were tucked away in random drawers, closets, and unopened shopping bags. She truly didn’t realize how much she already had.

When we lined them all up, we both laughed—but it was a lightbulb moment.
Disorganization wasn’t just cluttering her space—it was draining her wallet.

😩 3. Mental Load: The Invisible Cost

Clutter isn’t just visual—it’s psychological. Every pile you see is a to-do list you haven’t tackled. Every unorganized cabinet whispers, “You should’ve handled this yesterday.”

You may not consciously hear it, but your brain does. And it’s tired.

Research shows clutter increases cortisol, the stress hormone. Translation: clutter = chaos, even when you’re trying to relax.

🧠 The Mental Load of Coming Home

You know that moment when you walk through the back door?
Are you glad to be home—or instantly overwhelmed?

For many people, their home isn’t a place of peace. It’s a silent to-do list: the laundry, the cluttered counter, the closet you avoid opening. Clutter doesn’t just take up space—it takes up headspace.

You may not notice it, but it’s wearing you down. And most of the time, we don’t realize how heavy it’s gotten until we finally let it go.

🚪 4. Missed Opportunities (a.k.a. The Party You Didn’t Host)

When your space feels out of control, you put life on hold.

  • You cancel the dinner party because you’re embarrassed.

  • You don’t start the new project because your office is a disaster.

  • You show up flustered to meetings or events because you couldn’t find your keys.

Disorganization quietly talks you out of living fully.

We once worked with a mom who quietly admitted she never let her kids invite friends over—because she was embarrassed by the mess.

Not because she didn’t love her home. But because the clutter made her feel like she was constantly behind.

Disorganization doesn’t just affect our space—it affects our memories.

When we cleared the clutter, she didn’t just gain a cleaner house. She gave her kids something bigger: freedom to invite joy in.

🛠 So, What’s the Solution?

No, it’s not a trip to The Container Store (though we love a good bin). It’s a mindset shift—and a system.

Getting organized isn’t about perfection. It’s about creating a space that works for your actual life—not your Pinterest board.

And yes, sometimes that means asking for help. That’s where we come in.

💬 Final Thought

Disorganization might feel like no big deal—but it adds up in hidden ways:
Lost time. Lost money. Lost peace.

But the good news?
You don’t have to stay stuck in the chaos.

We can help you create a space you actually want to live in.
And I promise—you’ll never look at a junk drawer the same way again.

📣 Ready to stop paying the hidden cost?

➡️ Book a session with Chaos Organizing
📧 Or email us: info@chaosorganizing.com

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Why Is It Okay to Hire a Plumber, but Not a Professional Organizer?

In every household, things break down—pipes leak, cars need repairs, and electrical issues arise. When these things happen, no one hesitates to call a plumber, mechanic, or electrician. It’s understood that these tasks require a certain skill set, and hiring an expert is simply the practical thing to do.

But when a woman struggles with home organization, the response is often very different…

In every household, things break down—pipes leak, cars need repairs, and electrical issues arise. When these things happen, no one hesitates to call a plumber, mechanic, or electrician. It’s understood that these tasks require a certain skill set, and hiring an expert is simply the practical thing to do.

But when a woman struggles with home organization, the response is often very different. Instead of being encouraged to seek professional help, she’s frequently met with shame or judgment—especially from her husband. Many men assume that keeping an organized home is just part of their wife’s natural role or responsibilities. But is it really fair to expect one person to manage it all?

Not Every Woman Is Naturally Organized—and That’s Okay

Some people are born with a knack for fixing things, while others excel at decorating, cooking, or planning. Organization is a skill like any other, and not everyone has it. Unfortunately, many women feel pressured to be the "household manager" even when organizing isn’t their strong suit.

The truth is, just as not everyone can fix a leaky sink, not everyone can create and maintain a perfectly organized home. And that’s perfectly okay! The problem arises when society tells women that struggling with organization is a personal failure, rather than a simple skill gap that can be solved with help.

Even Organized Women Can’t Do It All

What about women who are naturally organized? Why do some of them still struggle to keep their homes in order? The answer is simple: time and priorities.

Many women juggle full-time careers, child-rearing, caregiving for aging parents, and countless household responsibilities. Even if they have the ability to organize, they often don’t have the time to do it properly. They may want their home to be more functional but feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of stuff, sentimental clutter, or the lack of systems that work for their family’s lifestyle.

A plumber doesn’t expect you to fix your own pipes just because you “could” learn how. So why should an organized woman feel guilty for hiring a professional organizer simply because she could do it herself if she had the time?

The Double Standard: Home Repairs vs. Home Organization

Imagine if a man tried to fix his own plumbing, only to make the problem worse. Most people would laugh it off and encourage him to call a professional. But if a woman admits that she’s struggling to keep up with clutter or doesn’t know where to start, she’s often met with questions like:

  • Why can’t you just figure it out?

  • My mom kept a clean house while raising kids, why can’t you?

  • If you just tried harder, you’d be more organized.

This double standard reinforces the idea that organization is an expectation placed on women, rather than a legitimate skill or service that can be outsourced. No one expects a homeowner to become a plumber overnight, but many people expect women to somehow "just know" how to organize their home effectively—regardless of their personal strengths, workload, or responsibilities.

Hiring an Organizer Isn’t a Luxury—It’s an Investment

Professional organizers are not just about making things look pretty. They create functional systems that make life easier, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being. For families, an organized home can mean:

✔️ Less daily frustration—No more searching for lost keys, important papers, or kids’ school supplies.
✔️ More time for what matters—Less time cleaning and tidying means more time with family, hobbies, and self-care.
✔️ Improved mental health—Clutter and disorganization are directly linked to stress and anxiety. A well-organized home can bring a sense of calm.
✔️ A stronger marriage—Many couples argue about household responsibilities. A professional organizer can ease this burden, creating harmony instead of tension.

It’s Time to Change the Narrative

Women shouldn’t feel guilty for struggling with organization any more than men should feel guilty for not knowing how to fix a water heater. It’s time to normalize hiring professional organizers in the same way we hire other home service professionals.

If you or someone you know is feeling overwhelmed by clutter or disorganization, don’t let shame stop you from getting help. Just like calling a plumber or an electrician, hiring an organizer is a practical, stress-relieving solution that benefits the entire household.

Need help getting organized?

At Chaos Organizing, we specialize in creating customized organization solutions that work for you. Whether you’re naturally disorganized or just too busy to get it all done, we can help bring order and calm to your home.

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